Tuesday Thoughts - Stepping Out of My Comfort Zone: My Night at the Growth Network Group Launch

How one evening of networking reminded me why community matters

Introduction

Last week, I did something I don’t often do — I went to an evening networking event. Not just any event, but the launch party for the Growth Network Group, owned and run by entrepreneur Sam Pennycook. It’s an online networking community built to bring people together in a way that feels supportive, accessible, and genuinely useful.

Walking into a room full of people I didn’t know, at a time of day when I’m usually winding down, was well outside my comfort zone. But it turned out to be an incredible night: full of energy, conversation, and connection. And I left feeling proud — of Sam, of the community he’s building, and of myself for showing up.

The Problem

Many founders and small business owners feel the pressure to network, meet people, and “put themselves out there.” But the reality is that networking can feel intimidating, especially when:

• You don’t know anyone attending

• It’s outside your usual routine

• You’re naturally introverted

• You worry about what to say or how to show up

• You’ve had mixed experiences with networking in the past

It’s easy to talk yourself out of going. It’s even easier to assume everyone else finds it effortless.

The Simple Fix

Sometimes the fix is simply this: go anyway.

Not with the pressure to perform. Not with the expectation of landing clients. Just with the intention of being present, meeting a few people, and seeing what happens.

That’s exactly what I did. I showed up, took a breath, and let the evening unfold. And what I found was a room full of friendly faces, open conversations, and a community that genuinely wants to support each other.

Sam did a fantastic job organising the event — warm, structured, and welcoming — which made stepping into the space so much easier.

The Results

By the end of the night, I’d:

• Met new people I’d never have crossed paths with otherwise

• Had meaningful conversations about business, ideas, and challenges

• Felt part of something bigger than myself

• Left with a renewed sense of confidence

• Been reminded how powerful community can be

And most importantly, I felt proud — proud of Sam for creating something so thoughtful, and proud of myself for stepping into a space that once would have felt too daunting.

Why It Works

Showing up works because:

• Human connection is still at the heart of business

• Community gives us energy, ideas, and perspective

• Being around others reminds us we’re not doing this alone

• Growth often happens at the edge of our comfort zone

• Supportive environments make it easier to be ourselves

Networking doesn’t have to be loud, salesy, or overwhelming. When it’s done well — like Sam has done with the Growth Network Group — it becomes a space where people feel seen, welcomed, and encouraged.

Quick Action Checklist

If you’ve been avoiding networking or waiting for the “right moment,” try this:

• Choose one event that feels friendly and accessible

• Set a simple intention: meet one or two people

• Arrive early so the room fills around you

• Give yourself permission to step outside if you need a breather

• Celebrate the fact you showed up — that’s the win

Bullet Points

Key takeaways from the night:

• Stepping out of your comfort zone can lead to great experiences

• Community matters more than ever for founders

• Networking doesn’t have to feel forced or uncomfortable

• A well‑run event makes all the difference

• You never know who you’ll meet or what conversations will spark something new

  
  

If you’re curious about online networking or want to be part of a supportive, growing community, it’s worth checking out what Sam is building: The Growth Network Group

Photo time at the launch party

Disclaimer

Whilst every precaution has been taken to ensure this information is accurate, Stuart Ashley takes no responsibility for any errors contained within. Please conduct your own research before making business or financial decisions.